You try.

[He gives Ken a little grin.] But you know that me and Minato won't let you, if we have anything to do with it. Or any of your other friends.

[And Ken's got plenty, more than he ever expected him to gain when he first came into this world, looking so sad and alone. Even now, talking openly about the things that are troubling him, is a huge improvement, and Jaime feels moved to lean over to ruffle that wavy, thick hair of his.]

And you do the same for everyone else, too.